Dear Doctor Love

  LETTER 2       Q Dear Doctor Love I have a good friend at school and we get on great. She’s been there for me this year when I had stuff going on in my family, but she’s started doing something that is gross and makes me feel sick to my stomach. I don’t know how to tell her to stop, or even if I should just stop being friends with her. She eats a lot of junk and has quite bad skin and lately she constantly squeezes her pimples and then eats it. It’s so disgusting and I can’t take it much longer. Gross friend     A Dear Gross Friend This sounds really difficult and conflicting. It is NEVER easy to tell someone when they have a habit or issue that we don’t like, but it’s really important to try rather than just pull away from them. It sounds like you have a very good friend here and they are hard to find. A good place to start might be to ask your friend if everything is going okay with her. You could say you’ve noticed her picking her face a lot which can be a sign of being an

LETTER 1       Q Dear Doctor Love I’m a smutty book addict. The more spice the better but when I read at work during my lunchtime, I can’t help looking at the men around the office and the bulge in their pants. A couple of times I’ve gotten a real good look and then had so much tension and buzzing in my crotch I’ve had to go to the bathroom to get myself off just for some relief. I feel like I can’t stop though because my life is actually really boring in every other way. This feels naughty and fun. Should I be doing stuff like this in the workplace though? Being Naughty     A   Dear Being Naughty There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a smutty book lover or enjoying looking at men, but I would say you need to be respectful about your interactions and try to limit them – and your bathroom visits - in the workplace. There’s nothing wrong with daydreaming or ‘getting yourself off’ but work might not be the best place to